Tuesday, August 10, 2010

In Honor of TJ's 23rd


Today is my cousin TJ's 23rd birthday.

TJ died a few months ago suddenly, and his death taught me a few things and also reinforced realities I tend to ignore. This is going to be more of a ramble and an homage to someone so young who probably taught me more than I knew he did in his short life.

Life is really eff-ing short

TJ was smart. I mean SMART.
I heard someone say at his funeral that he lived like he knew he only had 22 years.

I don't think I saw TJ not "on". It's like he tried to suck every last thing he could out of a moment.

- He was a smart ass (a quality I appreciate in people)
- He could build ANYTHING, and if he didn't know how, he figured it out
- He could dance- well, I mean he danced. It was awkward actually, but damn it if he didn't try! ha!
- He was happy
- He was always "doing". Which leads me to...

Do It.
I don't think many of us live by this principle. I know I don't, not in the way I want to. It was something I told myself I would do when I got back from his funeral, but I sorta let it fall to the way side.

Be Who You Are. Someone is bound to like it!
TJ had this sorta cockiness to him that very few people can get away with. He was TJ. He practiced his signature because he knew he would need it to be as impressive as he was. haha.

Be Bold and Curious
Live with energy and a want to experience the world.

I dunno, I could go on and on, but I feel like, this is what I wanted to say. I am proud to have been his cousin, and I am proud of all he did in his 22 years of life.

This isn't meant to be a sad post. This is meant to be a big thank you for being Good at truly living, TJ.

Politics Schmolitics


I started this blog in order to say something about my brother running in Nebraska's 2nd back in 2008. While Jim is no longer running for office, Tom White is picking up where he left off in an attempt to unseat Lee Terry .

This article from CNN prompted me to write this post. I think people do not realize how important their votes are. Not only that, they don't understand how important an EDUCATED vote is. I would never never EVER recommend voting party line, this is how people like Lee end up and stay in office. I would also never recommend voting for someone you don't know anything about. You CAN leave spaces blank on a ballot. People do not care enough about voting, yet feel it is ok to complain when their government does not work the way they want it to. I do not get this attitude. Having worked in politics, believe me, I have heard your excuses and I have a counter response for each of them. :)

WE NEED TO CARE ABOUT WHO REPRESENTS US.
And this is the trick, we do not need to care about:
  • How many kids they have
  • Marital status
  • Color of skin
  • Their stance on abortion (because unless they are a Supreme Court Judge they can't do anything about it... so it's a moot point...)
  • What they do in their private lives, because let's face it- no one is perfect. (We all make mistakes; just be sure to practice what you preach... AHEM!)
What we should care about is:
  • Their stance on issues that their political position can actually effect: http://www.whitehouse.gov/our-government
  • Their ability to work with others and ADMIT when they need to work with others. (We are not electing gods and goddesses people, you will not find the perfect candidate, but you can find someone who can actually leave his or her ego at the door occasionally).
  • Who contributes to their campaigns (the richer the hand in that pocket; the more forceful that hand's directional shove will be) : http://fec.gov/
  • If they make sense when they speak (please refer to all things Sarah Palin).
  • Are they passionate about the office they seek?
  • If they are running for re-election, what did they do with their time in office?
I love living in America. I love being from Nebraska and I am really excited for Nebraskans- especially now. I think there is an opportunity to see some real improvements happen!

I have to say, I was very sad to see Senator Hagel go from the political scene. He was a man with a backbone. He did not do what his party always said, and I think that is VERY important in a politician. I am sure many people re-elected him because he had the red R attached to his name. but he actually made me hopeful. He was a what you see is what you get type of guy, and those are few and far between in politics, which is probably why so many people are disenchanted with politics. I live in Chicago now, so yeah, I see my fair share of all things unethical. Oh Blago...

But you know, if we all could get a little more educated about who is in office, who we vote for and why voting is important, I think we would all realize the potential our voices have!

We are in a pretty bleak spot in history. So really the only place to go is up. Will a person sporting a D or an R make difference? Not unless that person is willing to work with someone from the opposing letter!

It's all about kindergarten. We need to work together, we need to share. If you support something, be willing to talk about it, be willing to debate, be willing to take a stand, EDUCATE US! This is a two way street. I challenge people to figure out what is important to them and fight for it. I also challenge you to vote in a logical way. Did you know you can order your ballot to be delivered to your house? That way, you look people up as you vote and make sure you are in fact voting for the right person. You can have your ballot (depending upon the state you live in) for around 30 days before election day and vote at your leisure. I know it's a bit early for all this, but I am guessing we all have some homework to do. I Know I do!

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

McTrophy

Around my place of bid-nass, there are not that many great food options. Or maybe I have been around here so long they are just boring to me. Either way, today I found myself at McDonald's.

Normally I would say that with shame, but I actually went in and got a salad (feel free to applaud).

Now, I would have been proud of myself for not having a shake that surely would have made me fart all afternoon, and a serving of those delicious salty fries.... siiigh....
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Whoa... ok I am done day dreaming now.... ANYWAY, I guess I don't go there enough, because it just occurred to me that McDonald's also rewards you for choosing the healthy option:
It's like they know you feel ashamed when you walk out of there, (damn that "Supersize Me" movie) and they understand that if you had to carry a normal McDonalds bag large enough for the salad container, you want to stop everyone on the street and say:
"It's not what you think! It's not a shake, fries and a 10 piece chicken mcnugget meal! I got a salad! A SALAD! YOU HEAR ME?? I WENT INTO MCDONALDS AND DID NOT BUY MYSELF A LARGER ASS!"

I just think it's nice they give you a trophy bag when you exit.

I am also going to save this bag to put my Big Mac in next time I go there.